The 2 Most Dangerous Mindsets That Kill Your Chances Of Succeeding Online

The 2 Most Dangerous Mindsets That Kill Your Chances Of Succeeding Online

There is a lethal trap most newbies to internet marketing fall into.. and it’s super hard to get out of.

And newbies aren’t the only victims.

I get emails and messages from guys and girls around the world telling me they have been struggling for months, sometimes years – and this is the #1 cause of it.

The worst thing is that almost all who have fallen in this trap don’t know that it’s detrimental to their success.

The first is trying to do everything yourself.

The second is trying to do it all for free.

I can see why people ‘think’ this is the best route to take when starting an online business… and maybe you still do, but hopefully by the end of this post, you’ll realize you must avoid this habit like the plague.

And I admit I was a little in this state of mind in the beginning of my career too – but thankfully I snapped out of it early.

I remember my first big investment (apart from getting a personal internet business coach) was getting upgraded memberships at safelists.

At first I was all for getting “free traffic”, but it was coming in in dribbles. I wanted to turn on the firehose of traffic – so I invested in pro memberships at a few safelist..

And they weren’t cheap!  Around $197 for 12 months! And I was doubting very much if I would ever see my money again.

But I decided to make it work.

One thing I always tried to do when I first started out was try to make back any money that I spent asap, so I was determined to get my money back – so I used those safelists religously. I mailed as soon as I could (I could mail every 3 days or something like that).

I’m not sure about now, but in 2007 they were actually quite responsive! I could get a dozen or more subscribers every time I mailed to the safelist members.

So did this beat writing articles and making squidoo lenses?

You bet!

There is nothing wrong with Squidoo and Articles, but at that time, doing it all my myself, I could just feel it was the long way to success.

I wanted to “fast track” and see results asap!

Doesn’t everyone?

So if you want faster results too, rethink your “work strategy”.

You might say “Oh I can’t afford to pay for a $200 membership upgrade!

But I say, “Do you want traffic today, or traffic next month?”

You might say “I can’t afford a professional autoresponder.”

But I say, “Can you afford not to invest in one? Are you planning on building a list of 300 or 300,000?”

You might say, “That designer/copywriter/mentor is too expensive… I’ll just keep going at it myself and wish for the best.”

But I say, “Why shoot yourself in the foot? Why not let experts do the job which will give you the best results (ROI)?”

I want you to see that spending money on tools and expert services is an investment.

An investment means that your money will work for you to make you more money. 

That’s how you’ve got to see business and your money in it. Money is a tool to make you more money.

If you’re holding on tight to it and not investing it, it will never grow.

Of course, you need to have a long-term plan.

You need to have all the pieces in place for your business to succeed.

For example, you’d be silly to spend hundreds on a website design only to never advertise it.

All these costs can add up, but with a long-term plan in place, and using a rough mathematical formula, you can forecast the results (PROFIT) you’ll be seeing.

That’s the great thing about most marketing campaigns.. especially online ones- You can almost predict the outcome before you start!

So have a think about your business. Are you in it for the long run, ready to dive in and get the lifestyle you want? Or are you being a wussy and just want to dip your toe in and not really see the potential that lies for you?

I hope you’re not a wussy, but if you are try this.

To your success,

Stuart Stirling

p.s. Tell me where you’re at and what you’ll be investing in next!

For me, it’s about buying traffic and delegating tasks to others to free up my time.

10 thoughts on “The 2 Most Dangerous Mindsets That Kill Your Chances Of Succeeding Online

  1. Hi I have been trying to do it for free but now know that I have to start investing some cash into my venture. It’s the not knowing if a paid strategy will work or not, that’s what keeps you from spending huge sums on advertising.

    1. very true Steve and that’s where I think most marketers fall over. you do have to be willing to drop as much as a few hundred bucks to really get a feel for how your offer converts.. but once the stats come in, you’ll be able to work out how profitable (or not) your offer/funnel is. hopefully you know what you’re doing before you invest and send traffic. the other option is to get advice or a critique from other experienced marketers

  2. Hi Stuart, Thank you very much for your very helpfull information you have sent me over the weeks, I am still struggling to make any money on line, but keep on going and learning. Money is tight for us pensioners and I have a Disability hinderance to cope with as well.Thank you once again Jim Wallworth UK
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    1. hi Jim, marketing is all about using money to make more money, so even small amounts should be turning a positive ROI! if money is tight i.e. you’re losing money, you probably need to re-think your business strategy

  3. Paid can be quite inexpensive, these days. I have found many by being a paid up member of the Warrior Forum. The more I looked the more I found, especially from free WSOs and War Room offers.

  4. Yes is very rightly what you say. From here all man have to learn. This is a good experience which must to be must be followed closely.I receive a pension on 6/14/2013 and can not invest that $ 17 now, but I will follow. I hope to help me.

    My deep respect for you and for your family,


  5. As Dave and Dave would say I am a wussy…..I got into online business to make money not spend it like a drunken sailor with EN. Not being rude but all they want to do is upsell you and pour the guilt on by calling you wussy if “you’re not all in” most of us don’t have the money to “Get all in”

    1. maybe you don’t have the money to go ‘all in’ right at the start. but eventually you will.. you can make great money with just a couple of the products. if you haven’t made any money with EN yet, it just means you haven’t put in the effort.. you will succeed with it if you decide that you will… as with anything.. you just need to be comitted

    1. if you have no list then yes, it pays to leverage your cash to ‘rent’ others’ lists.. that’s why safelists, solo ads and giveaways are a good choice. just do your research before you jump in an spend big $$.. just make sure you get that traffic into your own list first before sending it to any paid offer pages so you get the maximum response out of it

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